In every long term relationship…

You are moving in either one of two directions…

Down one road, you aim to get along, do the right things and avoid arguments.

You subconsciously become like each other. You as a couple, become more and more similar.

If you are successful, you become best of friends.
But there is a price to pay to come down this road… as there always is.
Eventually you become numb to the passion.
And if you don’t turn around now, you and your lover will eventually become dead inside.

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You have another choice though.

Down the second road… you get to keep the passion. You get to keep that aliveness.

But that means you don’t always get along.

The relationship is not always seem so stable.

But the real price to pay – you will definitely have fights, a lot of fights.
It will cause you and your lover tremendous stress from time to time. It will cause massive interruptions and disruptions to almost every single part of your life.

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And at times you will feel like you might even lose your lover.
In every interaction and every decision you make, Everything you do, say or focus on, it is taking you down one of these roads.

My question to you is…

Which road are you going down?

Which direction is actually going to add most value to you and your lover?

And would you rather your lover be dead inside

Or have the passion and excitement but also the possibility of losing them?

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I’m D. Shen from Commitment Triggers, I hope you choose wisely.

Author D. Shen

David is the founder of Commitment Triggers & co-founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach women how to attract a high value man and inspire him to be emotionally committed to the relationship long term.

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