In every long term relationship…
You are moving in either one of two directions…
Down one road, you aim to get along, do the right things and avoid arguments.
You subconsciously become like each other. You as a couple, become more and more similar.
If you are successful, you become best of friends.
But there is a price to pay to come down this road… as there always is.
Eventually you become numb to the passion.
And if you don’t turn around now, you and your lover will eventually become dead inside.
My Dearest Lover and Best Friend
You have another choice though.
Down the second road… you get to keep the passion. You get to keep that aliveness.
But that means you don’t always get along.
The relationship does not always seem so stable.
But the real price to pay – you will definitely have fights, a lot of fights.
It will cause you and your lover tremendous stress from time to time. It will cause massive interruptions and disruptions to almost every single part of your life.
Learn how to inspire your man to commit, the easy way. Watch my Free Commitment Masterclass
And at times you will feel like you might even lose your lover.
In every interaction and every decision you make, Everything you do, say or focus on, it is taking you down one of these roads.
My question to you is…
Which road are you going down?
Which direction is actually going to add most value to you and your lover?
And would you rather your lover be dead inside…
Or have the passion and excitement – but also the possibility of losing them?
I’m D. Shen from Commitment Triggers, I hope you choose wisely.
David is the founder of Commitment Triggers & co-founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach women how to show up as a high value high status woman whom easily inspires a deep sense of emotional commitment from her chosen man. Together with his wife Renee at The Feminine Woman, they have positively influenced the lives of over 15 million women through their free articles and videos as well as 10’s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform.
Connect deeper with his work through the social media links below.